March 29, 2017

Dear Friends: 

This is an update to keep you informed about where we are with the Executive Director position.

The position was advertised on two sites recommended by the National Organization of Temple Administrators and we received several resumes. We've begun preliminary telephone interviews and, once those are completed, will move on to "in-person" or Skype interviews, depending on the location of the applicant. As we progress, I will do my best to keep you informed, but if you have any questions, please don't hesitate to reach out to me.

Best wishes,

Debi Oxenberg, President


Two Different Newsletters Replacing Email Blasts and Monthly Bulletin


In order to provide better, more timely communication with the membership, the Temple Board is faciliating a change in how that happens.


Beginning mid-February, instead of receiving two weekly emails with announcements, you will receive one reformatted, electronic newsletter every Friday. It will present a fresh new look that provides a glimpse of he various happenings at our congregation and a message from our leadership. Each piece directs you to our website where you can find more details.


If you do not have email, and would like a printed copy of the weekly newsletter, please call the main office.


In addition, we are planning to replace the monthly printed Temple Bulletin with a quarterly printed newsletter beginning June 1. The new quarterly wil give a bird's eye of our congregation by focusing on the biggest events: High Holidays, worship, education, tikkun olam, and other activities that impact the entire membership. We will also keep you informed of important happenings within our Board and Temple Family.


If you have any questions or concerns, please contact Temple Board President, Debi Oxenberg.

Shaarai Outsources Bookkeeping Services

Shaarai Shomayim will now be outsourcing bookkeeping services to Kesef Accounting Service, LCC, as of November 11, 2016. On behalf of Congregation Shaarai Shomayim, Kesef Accounting Service will be sending you billing statements monthly.

Effective immediately, if you choose to send a payment via check, please send it to:

Congregation Shaarai Shomayim

P.O. Box 418

Montvale, NJ 07645

Checks must be payable to Congregation Shaarai Shomayim

For any additional questions or concerns, please contact Shaarai Shomayim President, Debi Oxenberg, at


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Temple Board President



I was born and grew up in Flint, Michigan, the oldest of six children in a Conservative Synagogue. I've always been drawn to volunteerism and helping others. If you ask my family, they'll tell you I'd like to "Save the World" and that may be right.

I have been a nurse for 34 years, the majority spent in Oncology Nursing. I am now the Oncology Research Director for WellSpan Health. I've traveled multiple times to Honduras to bring medical care to the remote mountain villages and traveled to New Orleans after Hurricane Katrina to help on the Suicide Hotline.

We moved to Lancaster in 1988 where we raised our daughter, Stefanie Heller, and are thrilled that she, our son-in-law, and two granddaughters call this home as well. 

I'm so excited to have the opportunity to fulfill the role of President of this amazing congregation and community. Congregation Shaarai Shomayim is a wonderful community that provides warmth, education, mentoring, nurturing, learning, caring, and spirituality. We care about the community of Lancaster as well as the world we live in. I hope you are as excited as I am to travel this path. 

I look forward to meeting and talking to every one of you. Please don't be shy- email me or call me whenever you have questions, concerns, or just want to say "Hi."


Debi Oxenberg, President



Debi Oxenberg / 717-898-8798

1st Vice President

Julianne Babione


2nd Vice President

Rick Lynch


Financial Secretary

Jill Weisberg


Treasurer / Immediate Past President

Stefanie Heller


Recording Secretary

Stacey Kapushy


Brotherhood President

Aaron Zinner


Sisterhood President

Rhonda Kleiman



Marcy Dubroff

Matt Freedman

John Perry

Carrie Smith


Jim Baumgartner

Donna Cohen

Jennifer Finkelstein

Ericka Powell


Barry Appelbaum

Bob Houghton

Josh Schwartz

Nikki Wilson


Stefanie Heller

Gary Kroot

Linda Novosel


Rosanne Selfon

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